Au-Pair in Germany: Everything You Need to Know
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Germany is the third most popular destination country for au-pairs worldwide — after the USA and France. This is due to its strong economy, central location in Europe, high standard of living, and well-regulated au-pair program.
In this guide, you'll learn everything you need to know about an au-pair stay in Germany — from culture and daily life to practical details.
Culture and Language
Germany is culturally diverse — Bavaria differs significantly from Hamburg, Berlin has a different atmosphere than the rural Eifel. What surprises most au-pairs:
- Punctuality: Punctuality is highly valued in Germany. Always be on time — whether for babysitting or language class.
- Directness: Germans often communicate directly. This isn't rude — it's culturally normal. Feedback is given openly.
- Recycling: Germany has one of the strictest waste separation systems in the world. Learn early how it works — your host family will be impressed.
- Quiet hours: On Sundays and after 10 PM, things get quiet. Loud music or lawn mowing is then taboo.
- Cash: Germany uses more cash than many countries. Always carry some cash with you.
The official language is German. For the au-pair visa, you need at least A1 level. However, many Germans also speak good English — especially in major cities.
| Facts | Details |
|---|---|
| Pocket Money (Minimum) | 280 EUR/month |
| Working Hours | Max. 30 hours/week |
| Free Time | Min. 1.5 days/week |
| Vacation | Min. 4 weeks for 12-month stay |
| Language Course | Subsidy min. 70 EUR/month (or 840 EUR one-time) |
| Insurance | Health, accident, liability (by family) |
| Age | 18–26 years (for visa) |
| Duration | Max. 12 months |
| Language Level (Visa) | Min. A1 German |
Create profile & find families
Register on AuPairMatch, create a complete profile, and use smart matching to find German host families.
Video calls & decision
Get to know the family via video. Discuss expectations, tasks, schedule, and rules. Have at least 2–3 calls.
Contract & visa
Sign the au-pair contract and apply for your visa (if needed). Use the AuPairMatch visa checker.
Arrival & settling in
Arrive, register at the local office, start your language course, and enjoy your adventure!