What is an Au-Pair?
The Au-Pair Program Explained
An au-pair is a young person (typically between 18 and 30 years old) who lives with a host family abroad for a limited period of time. In exchange for room, board, and a monthly allowance, the au-pair helps with childcare and light household tasks.
The word "au-pair" comes from French and means "on equal terms." This perfectly describes the core idea: the au-pair is not an employee but a temporary family member.
Typical Au-Pair Duties
- Taking children to and from school or kindergarten
- Playing with children, doing crafts, helping with homework
- Preparing meals for the children
- Light housework related to the children (tidying children's rooms, children's laundry)
- Babysitting in the evening (by arrangement)
What an Au-Pair is NOT
An au-pair is not a maid, not a nanny, and not an employee. Working hours are limited to 30 hours per week (in most countries). Heavy housework, gardening, or sole care of infants are not au-pair duties.
Benefits for Au-Pairs
- Experience a foreign culture and language firsthand
- Live abroad affordably (accommodation and meals included)
- Make international friendships
- Personal development and independence
- Valuable childcare experience
Benefits for Host Families
- Flexible, personal childcare in your own home
- Cultural exchange for the whole family
- Children learn a new language naturally
- More affordable than a professional nanny or daycare
- Support in everyday family life
Requirements
The exact requirements vary by country. Generally, these apply:
- Age between 18 and 30 years
- Basic knowledge of the host country's language
- Childcare experience
- Clean criminal record
- Valid passport (and visa if required)